When you are in love with him and he is not having it, leave him be.
Life can be so unfair and cruel. You see this guy, he is fly and all, one thing leads to another and you have fallen so deeply in love with him and he just friend-zoned you, walk away.
Find the courage within you to walk away.
Tell yourself the truth and face the reality of it and walk away with your remaining self worth. Refuse to walk in anyone's shadow.
Stand in front of your mirror and ask yourself what do I really see in me? It is what you see in yourself that will determine how you handle yourself henceforth.
Decide to take it one step at a time daily surviving the hurt.
There is nothing worth taking away your inner peace except you decide to allow it. Life is a choice and I implore you to choose wisely.
Success is the best form of payback.
When he has friend-zoned you for whatever reason, choose to succeed and be resourceful and generate results that will stand the taste of time.
Have you ever been friend-zoned? How did you handle it? Please share with me. I'm looking forward to reading from you.
Lots of Luv.
~Oma
Thursday, 30 March 2017
Wednesday, 29 March 2017
The Ride Of A Life Time!
I was still in college then and we had lecture free week, instead of going home to my parents, I decided to visit my boyfriend.
Driving my red sports car and feeling cool with myself, I sighted this lady under the scourging heat of the sun and decided to give her a lift. As we got talking, I realized she was also heading to Portharcourt city, though she lived and worked there, she had gone to the nearby state to attend a friend's wedding.
We got to Portharcourt and I dropped her off in front of a company and zoomed off happily to my boyfriend's house. We had talked about a few things and I remember telling her my man worked in the same oil company as hers. We even exchanged numbers and looked forward to being friends.
When I got to my boyfriends house, he was waiting for me, he was home during lunch break just to welcome me. He appeared so happy to see me, I felt so loved. We had a quick one *grin* before he left back to the office.
I might have dosed off or so after the routine house cleaning and fixing early dinner. I was abruptly awakened by the forceful bang opening of the door with attendant raised voices. It was my boyfriend, his cousin and a lady.
The cousin rushed to me to protect me from being hit with a shoe while my supposed boyfriend was holding on to this lady trying to persuade her. I quickly jumped out of the couch in the midst of the whole confusion, Lo and behold, it was my supposed new friend I had given a ride in my car to Portharcourt...
Driving my red sports car and feeling cool with myself, I sighted this lady under the scourging heat of the sun and decided to give her a lift. As we got talking, I realized she was also heading to Portharcourt city, though she lived and worked there, she had gone to the nearby state to attend a friend's wedding.
We got to Portharcourt and I dropped her off in front of a company and zoomed off happily to my boyfriend's house. We had talked about a few things and I remember telling her my man worked in the same oil company as hers. We even exchanged numbers and looked forward to being friends.
When I got to my boyfriends house, he was waiting for me, he was home during lunch break just to welcome me. He appeared so happy to see me, I felt so loved. We had a quick one *grin* before he left back to the office.
I might have dosed off or so after the routine house cleaning and fixing early dinner. I was abruptly awakened by the forceful bang opening of the door with attendant raised voices. It was my boyfriend, his cousin and a lady.
The cousin rushed to me to protect me from being hit with a shoe while my supposed boyfriend was holding on to this lady trying to persuade her. I quickly jumped out of the couch in the midst of the whole confusion, Lo and behold, it was my supposed new friend I had given a ride in my car to Portharcourt...
Tuesday, 28 March 2017
What Do You See?
What seesth thou?
How do you see yourself?
Take some seconds to think about it.
The way you see yourself matters and goes a long way to shape your life. It is okay not to know it all, it is okay not to be the genius in the block, it is okay not to be drawn to many people.
Listen young woman, you are created for only one man not all man and when that one man sees you, every other thing is inconsequential.
When you think low of yourself, you act low and become clingy and irritating.
You are full of resource, take time out to discover you. It is so beautiful and refreshing to know that you matter in life scheme of things.
Stop trying so hard to be like the person next to you. You are unique, all you have to do is discover who you are.
Ask yourself, what do you really enjoy about yourself? Once you can answer that then dwell on that thought for as long as you can and then bask in the euphoria of self love.
Lots of Luv
~Oma
How do you see yourself?
Take some seconds to think about it.
The way you see yourself matters and goes a long way to shape your life. It is okay not to know it all, it is okay not to be the genius in the block, it is okay not to be drawn to many people.
Listen young woman, you are created for only one man not all man and when that one man sees you, every other thing is inconsequential.
When you think low of yourself, you act low and become clingy and irritating.
You are full of resource, take time out to discover you. It is so beautiful and refreshing to know that you matter in life scheme of things.
Stop trying so hard to be like the person next to you. You are unique, all you have to do is discover who you are.
Ask yourself, what do you really enjoy about yourself? Once you can answer that then dwell on that thought for as long as you can and then bask in the euphoria of self love.
Lots of Luv
~Oma
What Keeps A Relationship! Sex or sex?
Sex or sex???
There is the art of sex and there is the personality sex. Which of them do you think keeps and sustains a relationship? I'll tell you.
Sex fades, becomes outdated and never satisfying. But your personality is ever green.
Work on your personality. God the Almighty creator had deposited so much in you, so, you can't afford to be sitting at one corner waiting to be a sex toy for any man.
Invest in your personality, work on your character, filter your words before you say them. Put checks on your character.
Life is beautiful, life is good but it is your personality that will enable the way you choose to see life.
Choose wisely.
~Oma cares.
There is the art of sex and there is the personality sex. Which of them do you think keeps and sustains a relationship? I'll tell you.
Sex fades, becomes outdated and never satisfying. But your personality is ever green.
Work on your personality. God the Almighty creator had deposited so much in you, so, you can't afford to be sitting at one corner waiting to be a sex toy for any man.
Invest in your personality, work on your character, filter your words before you say them. Put checks on your character.
Life is beautiful, life is good but it is your personality that will enable the way you choose to see life.
Choose wisely.
~Oma cares.
Monday, 27 March 2017
How Far Can You Go?
How far can you go for the one you love?
How far can you go just to protect that love?
How far can you go just stomach all the 'ish' that go through in your relationship?
I've had quite a number of sacrifices to make in a relationship but at some point I realise that the loyalty is one sided. But did that make me quit? No!
Rather it fuelled in me a stronger desire to keep on and at the end of the day, loyalty always win.
I want to encourage you to go as far as you can in your loyalty to that relationship that you are in right now.
No matter how heartbreaking it gets, find the strength within to go the length because at the end of the day, loyalty is all that matters.
~Oma
Friday, 24 March 2017
My Body can't Take It Anymore!
When you long for his touch and he is not there to touch you, when your heart yearns for just his smile and he is still not there, when you quake at the thought of him, then you know that your body can't take it anymore.
Tears are not enough, hugging your pillow will only worsen the situation because your heart keeps racing uncontrollably to the thoughts of him.
When my body can't take it anymore, I cry but there is no one to console me. Why can't he just understand that he is all that my body ever yearn for? Why can't he understand that I'm at that point where my body can't take it anymore?
Dear sister, you are not alone.
Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda!
What? Why? Because?
Should I?, would I?, Could I?
YES!
Go for it. No matter how long you live on earth, it is nothing compared to eternity. So, go for it. Love again, care again, give your heart again.
You have no reason to second guess yourself, go on and take that date, go on and attend that reunion, go ahead and attend that wedding ceremony, just make sure that you are not second guessing you.
You have been holding yourself back for too long thereby restricting your soul from fully experiencing true fulfilment and happiness. You have told yourself so many lies that you aren't good enough.
The truth is, you are a limited edition, you are unique and you have all it takes to be happy again.
You are not meant for everyone, you are meant for that one person but you have to take your chances in other to meant that special someone.
Yes you should, and yes you can.
Lots of Luv
~Oma
Should I?, would I?, Could I?
YES!
Go for it. No matter how long you live on earth, it is nothing compared to eternity. So, go for it. Love again, care again, give your heart again.
You have no reason to second guess yourself, go on and take that date, go on and attend that reunion, go ahead and attend that wedding ceremony, just make sure that you are not second guessing you.
You have been holding yourself back for too long thereby restricting your soul from fully experiencing true fulfilment and happiness. You have told yourself so many lies that you aren't good enough.
The truth is, you are a limited edition, you are unique and you have all it takes to be happy again.
You are not meant for everyone, you are meant for that one person but you have to take your chances in other to meant that special someone.
Yes you should, and yes you can.
Lots of Luv
~Oma
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