In a home, especially here in Africa, the man (Father) is the head of the home and the woman (Mother) is the leader of the family. But most times it is not always so.
On this platform, I want to speak to the leader of the home, the woman (mother).
A family head is statutory as ordained by divinity, by law and by marriage.
The mother, as the leader of the family is the coordinator. You are the one to organize the children and other family members living in your home.
As the leader of the family, you are to be active, appear firm but full of love, never take sides and never allow any form of disrespect withing the family rank no matter the situation.
In a situation where the children grow into adulthood, be sensitive to know when you are no longer in charge and with wisdom, identify amongst your children the one with a good leadership and organizing skills and encourage him/her to organise the rest of the siblings.
You came start with simple things like the birthday of a family member or your anniversary, then, sit back and watch the outcome. With this, you can access how well they can organize themselves in you absence or incapacity because you won't always be available or active.
It is advisable to start now and start early.
May the blessings of this season locate your home. Amen.
Lots if Luv.
~Oma
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