What Will It Cost You To Live Happy?

Many times, we worry over things that we ordinary ought to throw away and walk away from. What will it cost you to live happy?

Life is a choice. Life is in phases, we must consciously make a choice to live happy.

A story is told of a lady who was sick, she was so sick in her health that the doctors got worried that her health was detoriating so fast. One of the doctor's decided to carry out an experiment on her.

The Doctor gave her a pen and a paper with a simple question,  "what will it cost you to live happy?" the more the lady thought on the question, the more tears flowed freely from her eyes. Finally she just replied, I just want to be happy.

Guess what,  the thought of living happy was what made her health deteriorate.

Stop thinking it, just live. Live one day at a time concentrating on the things that tickles you fancy. Go all out it because happiness is from within.

Choose to see the good in everything and everyone. Choose to be positive and optimistic, stop thinking of what it will cost you to live happy, just live happy.

Lots of Luv
~Oma

Will You Stand By An Adulterous Partner?

I've been thinking through a whole lot going on in our mainstream lately. So I ask,  will you stand by an adulterous partner?

There's a lot of people especially women alike in particular whose partner's cheat in the relationship.

I met this woman who is in her early 60's. I see her as a mother figure and relate with her as such but there was these part of her that she never talked about. Yesterday she told me a story about her friend, Pamela.

Pamela was a beautiful woman with a good heart. She cared deeply for her husband. Then one evening he comes home with a lady he claims is his colleague and had no place to stay because her landlord had thrown her out.
Pamela being the 'good woman' she is,  didn't question but took the stage lady in. Fast forward to five days later, Pamela returned home from the market to find her husband and his supposed colleague on their matrimonial bed. Later that night,  her husband and the female colleague who is his mistress joined Pamela in bed and in her presence, they had raunchy love making sessions and when they finished, the husband asked her to serve them tea,  which she did,  being 'the good woman', she served them.

Today, Pamela's husband is living with his mistress in another state,  15years and counting. While Pamela is now alone, lonely and a shadow of her once beautiful self all because she wanted to be the "good woman".

So I ask, will you stand by an adulterous partner?

Think deep before you answer.

Lots of Luv.
~Oma

Keep On Keeping On!

Life they say is not a bed of roses, even if it were, roses have thorns.

Life is in phases and men are in sizes. Never compare yourself with anyone no matter what.

Just know that you can't throw in the towel now, you just can't give up no matter the challenge that you are facing currently.

There is always a bright side. Even is there is none, create one for yourself and for others around you or anyone you know who is presently going through challenges.

As I write to you, I also have challenge, there are different issues yet to be sorted out in my life but I chosen not to be deterred.

I told myself this morning that I am tired of crying over issues, I am tired of being dejected because certain things are not working the way I thought they ought to have and then I remind myself of you and all that you go through and are going through.

I want you to quit pitying yourself and crying foul. You just can't give up now. You have to keep on keeping on.

Have you been disappointed? try again. Have your heart been broken? love again. Have you fallen? rise again.

No matter what you go through, no matter how challenging and complicated things may seem, do not give up, keep on keeping on because you are the reason I am here.

Lots of Love,
 ~Oma.

Labour To Be A Blessing!

You never know dryness if your drive is to be a blessing.

Living above your means is the cheapest way to frustrate your destiny.

Labour to be a blessing in your relationship. Be a source of joy, a source of peace of mind,  a source of success and rest.

Your certificate does not guarantee success in your relationship or love life it is your conscious commitment to purpose.

You are too loaded to live a worthless life. Introduce a new dimension of commitment to your relationship,  a commitment to labour to be a blessing to your partner.

Every accomplishment in life is a product of commitment in time. Consciously put in your time to be a blessing in your relationship that when you speak,  life comes out.

You are woman of virtue don't watch your life loose value.
As you make contribution of being a blessing to your partner and lover,  you shall eat the good fruit.

I celebrate you.
Lots of luv.
~Oma

Over And Over Again!

For how long will you continue to hurt him over and over again?

For how long will your partner shed secret tears in frustration over and over again because of the pain you cause.

Love is beautiful, love is kind,  love is divine but over and over again you have defiled love.

The choices we make at every stage of life goes a long way to shape us. The seed you sow today will germinate tomorrow and bear fruit. What type of fruit will yours bear?

Make a conscious effort to be a source of joy, inspiration, and a blessing to your relationship over and over again.

Let your partner look at you and find inner joy. Let your partner steal a glance at you just to be sure that you are real because of the way you have been a blessing over and over again.

I celebrate you.

Lots of Luv,
~Oma

One Thing Is Needful!

"But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part,  which shall not be taken away from her." ~Luke 10:42 [KJV].

"There is only one thing worth being concerned about. Mary has discovered it and it will not be taken away from her. " [NLT]

The first translation say ...But one thing is needful. . ., the second says . . . There is only one thing worth being concerned about. . .

 What is that one thing that is needful for you right now? What is that one thing that is worth your being concerned about?

It is time to set your priorities right before it's too late.

That relationship that you are in,  is it needful? Is it worth your being concerned about? Check yourself before you wreck yourself.

Lots of Luv.
~Oma😍

Factually Speaking!

I am tough, I am diplomatic, I am sweet, I am loyal, I am kind but at the same time, I am logical.

Sitting here alone, thinking of trends I have seen and walked through, it becomes imperative to share my opinion on the subject matter.
I live a life filled with new experiences and testimonies and through it all, I have learnt a lot and grown a lot more. I take risks and do the unexpected, above all, I believe in divinity.

Young ladies, there is no way you can get married to a man that you are intellectually higher than, especially, if he has insecurity issues from birth, and expect it to work.

I will like to advice young ladies, if you are a University or a College graduate, don't ever consider marrying a person without a WAEC result. It is always easier and better if the man has a better or higher academic qualification than the woman.

Yes! there are exceptions to every rule, though this is not a rule, I know of some couples it has worked for but take time to find out, you will notice that the woman in question is on the 'passive' side.

If you have an active persona` as a woman, and you have an academic qualification higher than that of the man who has asked for your hand in marriage, Sister, you need to do a re-think. Because, there will come a time when even prayer cannot save the day because you will be reasoning `A`, he will be reasoning `Q` and before you know it, the oil has spilled and there is no way to gather it back again. Think!

 May the Lord God Almighty, through His eternal Spirit, grant us understanding in the things of this Life. Amen!

Lots of Luv
~Oma.