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Cheating is not always kissing, touching, or flirting.

If you have to delete text messages so that your partner won't see them or switch off your phone whenever you are with your partner, then you are already there.

Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. When you cheat, you break your partner's trust and that is like crumpling up a perfect piece of paper. You can try to smoothen it but it is never going to be the same again.

In a committed relationship, we agree consciously or unconsciously to give certain part of ourselves to our partner. When you are flirting, you are giving to
someone else, sexual interest and attention that only your partner should get.

When you answer those coded calls and, or spend hours in the rest room with your phone, she knows when it is a guy you're on the phone with or with a crush.

If you are going to cheat, you probably shouldn't be in a relationship.

The easiest way to turn your woman off is by failing to give only her your attention. Once she has let you know with her actions that she really likes you and is in exclusive with you, show her the same attention and consistency.

With the considerably less intimacy and connection in your relationship, stonewalling communications between you both, spending longer hours at work, your constant lying about a variety of things, and stylishly avoiding her, yet she keeps pushing to be loving, loyal and respectful to you, guy, she knows that you are cheating. She just wants the best for you.

It is probably impossible to cheat-proof any relationship, and, you don't have to keep track of where you both are at all times BUT you should be open about everything that is going on in your lives.

Healthy communication is the best way to avoid cheating in your relationship. Whatever you cannot tell you partner, don't do it. It's not like they are controlling your life, it is part of being responsible. Communicate your expectations so that you are both happy and fulfilled.

Unhealthy communication is the worst thing for a relationship.
Give room for fighting fair, have boundaries for you relationships, stay away from exes that distract your current reality. If it didn't work for you with your ex in the past, what is the assurance that it will work now?

Be rest assured that you cannot eat you cake and have it.

Stay woke,
~Oma


NB:
You can write back to me and share your experience, it helps also.
omanaija@gmail.com