See What Is Going On When Your Partner Is Not Calling!

No one is ever too busy for the one they love.

Where one's treasure is, that is where the heart will be.

When it comes to relationship and matters of the heart, no one knows it all because everyone is unique and there is usually no manual to use in going about it the perfect way but there are some things that are hard to ignore.

When your partner who used to call you and or take your call at any point in time suddenly doesn't call you or call back as required, something is definitely wrong.

When your partner is not calling you or taking your call as required, then they've got someone else they are calling and, or taking their calls. It's time to cut your loses and move on and, or, take a leap and fight for the love of your life.

Re-evaluate your relationship. If it does not feel right, then its time to lose the partner before you lose your positive attitude.

Stop making excuses for your partner and face reality. If your man is not calling you back or taking your calls as required and as you've always both done in the relationship, then know that he has found someone new who now occupies his time and he feels more comfortable talking to and sharing moments with.

HOW TO DEAL WITH SUCH?
1. Face your current reality:
Stop trying to cover up and, or make excuses for your partner for a beat and tell yourself the truth. Living in denial will only mess with your mind.

2. Re-evaluate the relationship:
Lack of respect can show up in many different forms. It is obvious that your partner no longer respect you. And note that there is no vacuum in life. If your partner no longer respect you then there is someone else.
This is when you should sit down and ask yourself if it is really worth it. Maybe your core values are not longer aligned. If your core value and that of your partner no longer align then this is a major 'red' flag that may lead to avoiding the other's call and forming busy.

3. Your partner is trying to dump you:
This is a difficult thing to accept but it is the fact. Sometimes a person wants to move from you but does not want to hurt your feelings. Don't beg them to stay. Never ever beg for attention from anyone who doesn't want to stay in your life because you will end up hurt in the end.

Then again, you can actually fight for your heart because at the end, no one has a manual on how the heart works. But make sure that in the end, it will be worth it and last, last, you will be alright.

Best wishes.
~Oma


NB:
You can write back to me and share your experience, it helps also.
omanaija@gmail.com