Friday, 27 July 2018

Hello Guys, Get In Here!

Cheating is not always kissing, touching, or flirting.

If you have to delete text messages so that your partner won't see them or switch off your phone whenever you are with your partner, then you are already there.

Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. When you cheat, you break your partner's trust and that is like crumpling up a perfect piece of paper. You can try to smoothen it but it is never going to be the same again.

In a committed relationship, we agree consciously or unconsciously to give certain part of ourselves to our partner. When you are flirting, you are giving to

See What Is Going On When Your Partner Is Not Calling!

No one is ever too busy for the one they love.

Where one's treasure is, that is where the heart will be.

When it comes to relationship and matters of the heart, no one knows it all because everyone is unique and there is usually no manual to use in going about it the perfect way but there are some things that are hard to ignore.

When your partner who used to call you and or take your call at any point in time suddenly doesn't

How Do You Handle The Pain Of A Cheating Partner?

Infidelity takes a toll on even the most healthy relationship.

It is natural to want to know why your partner cheated on you but really there isn't any reason.

You begin to question yourself and think that you have failed or not good enough. It is always worst if your cheating partner gives you no explanation or tell you the reason why? because truly, there isn't really a 'why?'.

Cheating is not okay, it is the most disrespectful thing that could ever happen, it is hurtful, you will feel like your whole world has come to an end. The pain of a cheating partner is the worst form of betrayal of trust, there's no doubt about that but guess what?

Wednesday, 25 July 2018

What Happens When Trust Is Broken In A Relationship?

 

Trust is everything!.

When a mistake is made, 'sorry' can work but not when trust is broken. Forgiving is easy but forgetting and trusting again is near impossible.

Trust is like a mirror, you may be able to fix it when it's broken but the cracks will always be visible any time you look at it.

Whether it's a friendship or a relationship, all bonds are built on trust.

When it comes to relationship,

Tuesday, 13 March 2018

What Your Relationship Really Deserves.

There are many needs of a relationship as it relates to the well-being and sanity of both partners.
Once you accept this truth,  you will stop struggling and rather you will work out ways to give your relationship what it truly deserve rather than what it wants.
What does your relationship deserve?
Your Relationship Deserves

Thursday, 15 June 2017

I May Never Understand!



When I hear certain things that go on around here, I just realise that I may never understand what you are going through.
God has a reason for allowing things to happen, we may never understand his wisdom but we simply have to trust His will.

I am here today because

Sunday, 23 April 2017

What Alibaba Taught Me On My Birthday!


#Repost from @alibabagcfr

Some people will want to make you look bad so that they will not be alone in their misery. This is why you have people who jump into any conversation to run somebody down because they can not stand to see anyone look good.

Do you remember the story of the 2 mother's and King Solomon? That is exactly what is at play. Because their banga no ripe... everybody must chop white soup. Kilode?!!!!!!!!!!!! Because your relationship ended badly doesn't mean every opportunity you get is to run other men or women down.

Every human being, and by that l mean man or woman, has different tolerance level. Some first wives can accommodate 2nd, 3rd and 4th wife. Some can be the 3rd or 4th wife sef. That is their cup of tea. Some women can take it when their husbands have girlfriends. It's ok. As long as he is discrete and doesn't rub it in their face. Some other ladies can not stand the fact that their man even took a picture with another woman.

One lady sent me a DM the other day asking